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Jan 152 min read
Erasing Myself to Be Enough
I’m in the kitchen, scrubbing the counters for the second time even though they’re already clean. The baby is finally asleep, and my...
Jan 104 min read
How Therapy Helped Me Survive Life with a Narcissistic Partner
Before I entered my current relationship, I spent years in therapy working on myself. I sought help to address my own struggles,...
Dec 30, 20243 min read
How to Avoid Raising a Narcissist - Making Mistakes
Mistakes are a natural part of being human. They are how we learn, grow, and ultimately succeed.
Dec 25, 20243 min read
The Tragedy of No Witness
My daughter’s words remind me that while I may feel invisible to some, I am not invisible to her. And that gives me hope.
Dec 22, 20242 min read
My Hidden Agenda—Not So Hidden?
The more I reflect on the idea of confronting a narcissist with the truth, the more I realize that confrontation isn’t always the answer....
Dec 17, 20243 min read
The Frail Dance of Identity: Borderlines vs. Narcissists
One of the most profound differences between a borderline and a narcissist lies in how they perceive and express their sense of self. For...
Dec 16, 20245 min read
How a 'Perfect' Childhood Can Create a Narcissist
How is a Narcissist Created? Withhold genuine love from a child, but make Him believe He is loved. Wrap control, manipulation, and condition
Dec 15, 20242 min read
Caught Between Fear and the Dilemma of Change
To be honest, I’m terrified. I feel stuck in a limbo of conflicting emotions, grappling with a dilemma I can’t seem to resolve. As much...
Dec 11, 20244 min read
The Borderline-Narcissist Dynamic: Two Sides of the Same Pain
The borderline-narcissist dynamic fascinates and pains me in equal measure. Let me show you what I mean.
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